There are circumstances that present problems with no solution, leaving impressions that can never be erased. We are forced to pretend nothing unpleasant happened and there are no hard feelings towards each other but the inevitable damage is already done to the relationships. There is a change in the level of respect and trust and the more sophisticated a society is; lesser the conversations.
Education and refinement should work towards bringing people closer. Unfortunately, it works otherwise making people emotionally distant from each other. The analytical reasoning works well in filtering emotions from facts but emotion is the life force of a family and society, what's wrong in admitting it? Done in a right way, it brings family together and nurtures the secure feeling of an individual. Often, the value of emotions is underrated and presented as a lack of evolvement in human species. Isn't this emotion that differentiates humans from other species of less sophisticated neural system? If nature has created us this way, why shouldn't it be accepted the way it is.
That's why broken families and divorces are common in well developed societies....because the individuals in a family is emotionally distant from each other. The recurrent disappointments and resentments build over a period of time and cause irreparable damage. The individuals of such families must have spent their quality time is trying to prove each other that his/her view is right,when all it would have taken to be closer is to understand the other person's point of view. It is ok to be wrong some times...it is ok to do silly things some times...just to get out of the rut.
Come on.....after all, stone age man was happier than today's civilized man.
Education and refinement should work towards bringing people closer. Unfortunately, it works otherwise making people emotionally distant from each other. The analytical reasoning works well in filtering emotions from facts but emotion is the life force of a family and society, what's wrong in admitting it? Done in a right way, it brings family together and nurtures the secure feeling of an individual. Often, the value of emotions is underrated and presented as a lack of evolvement in human species. Isn't this emotion that differentiates humans from other species of less sophisticated neural system? If nature has created us this way, why shouldn't it be accepted the way it is.
That's why broken families and divorces are common in well developed societies....because the individuals in a family is emotionally distant from each other. The recurrent disappointments and resentments build over a period of time and cause irreparable damage. The individuals of such families must have spent their quality time is trying to prove each other that his/her view is right,when all it would have taken to be closer is to understand the other person's point of view. It is ok to be wrong some times...it is ok to do silly things some times...just to get out of the rut.
Come on.....after all, stone age man was happier than today's civilized man.
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